What is Coaching ? An Instant Answer!!!

From a Coaching Chat Conversation :

Darren (Name Changed)  said the following:

On making a first impression

Alex Jacob - Behavioral Trainer and Personal Coach said the following:

Dress well. Smile More

Feel confident

Listen carefully

Darren (Name Changed)  said the following:

I'm facing a serious placement interview for the first time, how can I overcome this fear

Alex Jacob - Behavioral Trainer and Personal Coach said the following:

What is the FEAR?

Darren (Name Changed)  said the following:

How would I speak to them, can I speak good English. Coz when I go In front of new people, I frown/stutter a lot.That is my fearA fear that can I express what I meant properly or not

Alex Jacob - Behavioral Trainer and Personal Coach said the following:

Think a bit and tell me an instance where you spoke PROPERLY

Darren (Name Changed)  said the following:

Hello Mr.Alex

Good morning

I thought a lot for the instance you've asked for

When I analysed that situation, it is the preparation that gave me that confidence to speak well, but in other instances it is my arrogance that I could speak fearlessly before people stopped me from preparing even a small note. So thank you Mr. Alex for letting me know my fault in what I'm doing

 Alex Jacob - Behavioral Trainer and Personal Coach said the following:

Fabulous. I am impressed. You did it